NYC Dating thrives because of our community's commitment to respectful, authentic interaction. These guidelines outline what we expect from every member. By using our platform, you agree to follow them.
Our Core Values
We built NYC Dating on four principles that guide everything we do:
- Respect: Treat others as you'd want to be treated. Disagreements are fine; disrespect is not.
- Authenticity: Be yourself. Use real photos, accurate information, and honest intentions.
- Safety: Look out for yourself and others. Report concerns promptly.
- Consent: Ensure comfort and agreement in all interactions.
What We Expect
Be Kind and Considerate
Engage with others in a friendly, welcoming manner. Everyone here is looking for connection—help make that possible through kindness, even if you're not interested in someone's advances. A polite "no thank you" goes a long way.
Be Authentic
Present yourself honestly. Use current, accurate photos. Don't misrepresent your age, location, interests, or relationship status. Authenticity builds trust and leads to better matches.
Be Respectful of Boundaries
If someone isn't responding or says they're not interested, accept their answer gracefully. Do not persist after a clear "no." Blocking someone is always acceptable—and should be respected.
Keep Conversations Appropriate
Engage in conversations suitable for a general audience. Avoid inappropriate, suggestive, or vulgar content until mutual comfort and consent are clearly established. Remember that what feels appropriate to you may not feel that way to others.
What's Not Allowed
The following behaviors will result in account suspension or removal:
Harassment and Abuse
- Threatening, intimidating, or demeaning language
- Racist, sexist, homophobic, or discriminatory comments
- Targeted harassment of any individual
- Trolling or deliberately provoking conflict
Deceptive Behavior
- Using fake photos or stolen identities
- Catfishing or misrepresenting yourself
- Creating multiple accounts without permission
- Impersonating other people or organizations
Inappropriate Content
- Sharing inappropriate photos or videos
- Posting nude or sexually suggestive imagery
- Distributing spam, ads, or promotional content
- Sharing graphic violence or harmful content
Illegal and Harmful Activities
- Any form of solicitation for sex work
- Sharing illegal content
- Attempting to scam or defraud other users
- Requesting money or gifts from other users
- Promoting dangerous or self-harm behavior
Enforcement
We take violations seriously. Reports are reviewed by our moderation team, typically within hours. Actions may include:
- Warning: First-time minor violations receive a warning.
- Temporary suspension: Repeated or moderate violations result in temporary account deactivation.
- Permanent ban: Severe violations lead to immediate, permanent removal.
We may also report illegal activity to appropriate authorities.
Reporting Concerns
If you encounter behavior that violates these guidelines, report it immediately through the platform. Provide as much detail as possible—screenshots, message content, usernames. Your reports help keep the community safe.
For emergencies, contact local authorities first. For non-urgent concerns, our support team is available through the Contact page.
Appeals
If your account is moderated and you believe it was in error, you may appeal through our Contact page. Provide your username, the action taken, and why you think it was mistaken. We review appeals carefully.
Shared Responsibility
Creating a positive community is everyone's responsibility. Hold yourself to high standards. Call out problematic behavior when safe to do so. Support others. Together, we make NYC Dating a place where authentic connections flourish.